WILL THERE BE ANY SEXUAL EXCHANGE DURING MASSAGE?
A) To avoid misunderstandings, I’m place emphasis on the fact that my services are massage services only – THEY DO NOT INCLUDE SEXUAL SERVICES. My guests only play a passive role. I invite you to try something COMPLETELY NEW
Sensual massage is a safe way to experience more health, comfort and pleasure in your body. It teaches you how to use intention, clear boundaries and choice to create a safe environment for your personal pleasure and empowerment. In sensual massage you learn how to use your breath and focus your awareness to increase sensations and deepen innate body well being.
Unlike therapeutic massages, sensual allows you to choose whether you are draped, nude or partially clothed on the table. You may elect to have your whole body massaged, including breasts and genitals, or not. You must clearly articulate your choices and give consent which exercises your personal expression of desires.
Although a sensual massage may include touching of the genitals and breasts, it is not to be confused with sexual massage. A sexual massage is about the expectation of receiving genital stimulation to sexually excite and result in sexual release. Rather, the intent of a sensual is about loosing expectations of any ‘result’ allowing you to feel and enjoy your body more in each moment.
In sensual massage there is no goal of orgasm. The goal is to fully explore techniques of breath and mind-focus to bring a timeless and treasured awareness of body joy. You are coached in techniques that allow you to experience being relaxed and energized simultaneously. You enjoy deep and prolonged states of suspension from ordinary awareness. Whole body massage promotes sexual health, wellbeing and wisdom.
The person giving a sensual massage is a teacher, an educator, and not an entertainer or actor. S/he teaches men, women and couples techniques of receiving that increase whole body ease, acceptance and pleasure. You lose the need ‘to go’ somewhere, perform, or ‘do’ anything.
A deep-tissue treatment is much like a Swedish massage, except it uses more force. Although many of the same touches are used, the movements involved in a deep-tissue treatment are generally slower and involve more pressure. The goal of a deep-tissue massage is to realign muscles and connective tissues by eliminating adhesions, or knots. Adhesions are areas of tight muscles that usually build up over time; they can cause chronic pain and inflammation and can limit mobility.
In a deep-tissue massage, adhesions are targeted and pressed, rolled, and kneaded until they are released. A therapist could use her arms, fingers, fists, palms, or knuckles to do this, and a good amount of pressure is always applied. The pressure and the focus on problem areas is why some people find deep-tissue massage to be uncomfortable.
Like most massages, a deep tissue treatment takes place on a table. Customers undress while the therapist is out of the room and lie down on their stomachs. A sheet is draped over the parts of the body not being worked on at all times, so complete nudity is not an issue. You are allowed to wear your underwear during the massage if it makes you more comfortable. If nudity is a big issue for you, you may want to consider other forms of massage that can be performed with clothes on. Thai, cranial, and reflexology are three such treatments.
Relaxation massage is essentially the same as a gentle Swedish massage that uses smooth, gliding strokes. The primary purpose will be to help you relax, and the therapist will probably move at a slower pace and use light pressure. During a relaxation massage there is less emphasis on working out serious adhesions or knots in the muscle tissue and the therapist won’t push your pain limits in order to get the muscle to release. Sometimes people even fall asleep during a relaxation massage.
What is aromatherapy massage?
Aromatherapy essential oils can be added to any style of massage. Usually, however, a treatment is called an “aromatherapy massage” when scents are added to the Swedish technique
What is sport massage?
This kind of massage is targeted to provide relief for sports-related injuries. It helps loosen tight muscles and can help with rehabilitation. You don’t need to be an athlete to benefit from a sports massage, however. If you have pain related to some kind of activity, this could be the kind of massage for you.
Hot stone therapy
Stone massage is one of the newer styles in the spa world, and it’s quickly become very popular. In this technique, warm stones are placed at pressure points along the back. Once they’re in place, the therapist gently presses each stone deeper into the back, which releases tension with the spread of heat.